Are You The One?: Choosing A Mate

Duration: 23 0:24:05

Genre: Educational

Creator: brigham young univ

Format: 16mm

Color: Color

Sound: sound

Description: Marilyn and Doug are in love, thinking about the possibility of marriage, and are encouraged by the words and the example of married friends Michael and Shirley who after several years seem to still be honeymooners. However, their attitudes and expectations reflect their upbringing. He finds her folks on the bohemian side, and she finds his parents to be "Victorian." Marilyn's divorced roommate Esther (who is attending a class on marriage), advises finding common interests, but Doug finds Marilyn's modern dancing dull, and she feels the same way about his fishing. Perhaps more importantly, Marilyn wants a career as well as children and Doug thinks raising a family is a full-time occupation for a wife., Emphasizes the necessity of marrying a person for what he is now and not for what changes can be made and suggests doing a variety of things while dating to discover as much as possible about one's compatibility. Documents one couple's realization that they are really not suited for marriage to each other. Stresses the need for compatibility of temperament, values, money, role concepts, and personality reactions.

Complete Record: Marilyn and Doug are in love, thinking about the possibility of marriage, and are encouraged by the words and the example of married friends Michael and Shirley who after several years seem to still be honeymooners. However, their attitudes and expectations reflect their upbringing. He finds her folks on the bohemian side, and she finds his parents to be "Victorian." Marilyn's divorced roommate Esther (who is attending a class on marriage), advises finding common interests, but Doug finds Marilyn's modern dancing dull, and she feels the same way about his fishing. Perhaps more importantly, Marilyn wants a career as well as children and Doug thinks raising a family is a full-time occupation for a wife., Emphasizes the necessity of marrying a person for what he is now and not for what changes can be made and suggests doing a variety of things while dating to discover as much as possible about one's compatibility. Documents one couple's realization that they are really not suited for marriage to each other. Stresses the need for compatibility of temperament, values, money, role concepts, and personality reactions., , Marilyn and Doug are in love, thinking about the possibility of marriage, and are encouraged by the words and the example of married friends Michael and Shirley who after several years seem to still be honeymooners. However, their attitudes and expectations reflect their upbringing. He finds her folks on the bohemian side, and she finds his parents to be "Victorian." Marilyn's divorced roommate Esther (who is attending a class on marriage), advises finding common interests, but Doug finds Marilyn's modern dancing dull, and she feels the same way about his fishing. Perhaps more importantly, Marilyn wants a career as well as children and Doug thinks raising a family is a full-time occupation for a wife.NOTE: Two (or more) records have been merged together to create this data.