Solving Conflicts

[Music] oh [Music] hey leave it here I need it I need it too you ped yourself the whole morning but I can't finish without it you can't hug it all day for you calling a hug come on you guys play goes on in 3 days and we're not going to be ready he started it no I didn't yes you did come on doesn't matter my not you hey don't take my black paint it's not just yours it's everybody but you're taking too much I have to finish my clouds well there's not going to be any left you're paining your clouds too big I am not paining my clouds too big yes you are give it back no give it no give it back now look what you did I didn't do it you did it I did not yes you did I maybe we should keep it down to a doll Roar we need help Mr Jackson we're not getting anywhere I've noticed they're just arguing all the time we're arguing you're the one there must be something that we can do how to keep from arguing all the time huh that's a tough one okay I have an idea you guys want to play some theater games yeah okay let's try a scene where two people disagree any ideas taking someone else's paint uh that's a little close to home what else Sports hey yeah and arum on the playground okay I have an idea does anyone know what this is beachball oh a handball you got it okay here's the game Scott Lisa you're playing handball against this wall let's see you try it okay let's give them a problem and see how they handle it Scott's ball goes out did it hit the line or didn't it good one ready go out of bound you're out no I'm not it hit the line it missed by a mile it was on the line don't be a jerk you're the jerk you can't even see you don't even know how to play I can play better than you any day oh yeah yeah freeze okay what do you think will happen next violence so if you handle conflict that way you feel bad who wins nobody you spend your time arguing instead of playing so how could they work out the problem I don't know if it will work but I have an idea okay go out there and try it same problem handled another way you ready okay you're out it hit line it was was way out no I saw it was on the line no way you're out okay all we're doing is arguing do you want to work it out what do you mean I'll listen to you if you listen to me okay I guess okay you saw it go out and I saw it hit the line right I know it went out okay okay so how are we going to solve it we could flip a coin no what if we ask those kids over there if they saw go out I guess why don't we just take it over okay with me you ready yeah freeze what happened this time they stay friends they got to keep playing who won they both did when you handle conflict well both people win can we move now sure what do you think that looks great when you're acting that isn't going to work on the arguments I have no way okay think of an argument you had recently okay it's before school and I'm playing basketball with some guys right all right you f hey far you can't crash into me and take the ball I crash into you you ran into me man that's a foul hey you really want who ran right over me you f me man shut up fool what you calling fool what are you going to do about it after that just got out of control did you get what you wanted I got sent to Mr Wilson's office is there any way you could have handled it differently it's me against him what can you do okay let's see if we can find out come on let's have a little half court basketball game here we're going to need a basket and a ball Scott J come here hit this ladder bring Center Stage okay yeah look out guys uh Scot take that and a ball come on D okay this time I want you to be the guy who steals the ball that dude okay let's get somebody up here to play Donal Jay okay Jay's got the ball and Donal steals it okay let's see what happens two points on the board hey foul man you slammed into me I didn't slam into you yes you did that's a foul get off my back you stupid where is this problem headed back to Mr Wilson's office what can they do okay I think I have an idea my uncle Al's secret [Music] form let's see what happens let's take it from when Dell makes the basket ready okay same problem handled in a different way that basket doesn't count you crashed into me I didn't crash into you you did I didn't look you count forever let's work it out okay what do you mean I'll listen to you first then you'll listen to me all right I guess okay go ahead you dropped the ball and I got it that's fair you think I dropped the ball you did drop it okay and I think you crashed into me no I didn't okay we saw differently what can we do about it give me the point what if you let me take a free throw to see who gets it no way toss it up and we'll jump for it no way why don't you guys just take it from where J have a ball okay with you I guess it was over there you ready set all right let's play freeze who won they both won good job Jay I just use a GL secret formula anyone know how he did it he got the other person to stop arguing and help solve the problem good think you can do that come on let's try it what are you doing with my marker you took it from my desk didn't you no way man that's my marker okay first you stole my marker now you're lying about it Who you calling don't argue with him okay wait wait you want to solve the problem what do you mean I'll listen to you if you listen to me okay but this is my marker no it isn't don't argue listen to this problem okay you're mad because marker is missing right right my problem I don't care what your problem is I listen to you okay okay this is my pens set look there's one missing once you start listening to each other problems get solved good job take your marker so what's Uncle L's secret formula Uncle L's secret formula okay here it is a agree you want to solve the problem you want to solve the problem what do you mean I'll listen to you if you listen to me okay L listen to find out what their problem is you dropped the ball and I got it that's fair you think I dropped the ball you did drop it s once you know the problem try to solve it you could flip a coin no well what if we ask those kids over there if they saw it go out why don't we just take it over okay a LS agree listen solve that's Uncle L's secret formula does it always work no it's not magic but Mr Wilson pardon me I forgot you were in here come here Mr Wilson we were just having a fight a fight uh let me show you what we were doing Mr Wilson I think I have an interesting idea you think Mr Wilson would join us in some theater games yes all right let's clear this out and I need a grand stand okay good thinking bring this over here you I don't know I haven't done any acting since high school no it's easy let me tell you what we're going to [Music] do okay Mr Wilson and I are going to have a conflict and I want you to help Mr Wilson handle it okay you help me out I'm depending on you okay imagine this is a baseball stadium and we're at the ball game on Sunday afternoon it's uh it's a big ball game tide score top of the third inning okay hey don't you want to win the game not going to win the game that way no no no no excuse me okay come on boys let's play some ball today huh come on have a good game excuse me I think this is my seat sorry it's it's not your seat it's mine okay here we go we're going to win the big one come on buddy I think you must have made a mistake do you mind if I watch the game I want to watch the game too we'll watching somewhere else okay but playball but this is my seat I don't need some idiotic Wise Guy way you listen here please name calling doesn't work it always makes an argument work but what should I do you're not listening to each other remember Uncle L's formula a agreed to solve it okay let's try it again excuse me listen I told you this is my seat okay I don't need any IDI wait wait we're both arguing and we're both missing the game but can we agree to work it out there's nothing to work out but I'd like to listen to what you have to say and then you can listen to me okay ah I guess good that too listen to the other person's problem look I walk into the state I see an empty seat oh I sit in it all right I understand but I was sitting here before you came in I don't care this is my seat if you just look under the seat that's my jacket see what happens when you listen the seat was empty when I got here it's mine now okay please what should we do ask try to solve the problem okay is that seat over there empty uh someone's saving it what you think we could just squeeze another person on the bench uh yeah yeah yeah yeah I guess I could squeeze over a little bit thank you thank you [Music] popcorn yeah yeah sure did we get what we wanted yeah you both got to see the game you both won very impressive maybe I'll try this at the next faculty meeting thanks for helping us out out my pleasure you know the world could use a lot more of this keep it up you guys bye Mr bye Mr Goodbye Mr [Music] Wilson think you guys can handle conflict better now I guess so yeah how about you two you think you can work it out I don't think she wants to you never know until you try come on to both you guys get up here how do you feel it's not exactly finding that your best friend we were best friends what do you mean I'm willing to talk about it if you are okay I don't know what you're being mean to me all morning I'll let me be mean to you you are the one when you start with you you tend to blame start with I I feel I feel mad when you spell pain all over me I feel mad when you don't even talk to me all morning the only reason I work don't interrupt let her know you're listening you felt bad because I didn't talk to you yes I only stayed away cuz you weren't talking to me well how would you feel about what if your best friend asked you to a movie and take someone else instead is that what you're mad about yes I didn't leave you out on purpose my mom decided I could only invite one person to the movie and I'd already asked Julie really yeah I really didn't mean to leave you out maybe I should have told you what happened I guess I could have asked you I'm going to need new shoes want to shop tomorrow sure friends friends all right well are we going to get this scenery made or aren't all right let's get to work come on let's [Music] go [Music] oh [Music] he